There are two emotions one experiences when having connecting flights; one is of calmness IF there is enough time in between flights or a rush of panic if the departure is scheduled too close to arrival time. Landing and taxiing the airplane to the gate or even worse using a distant runway to relieve congestion takes time and it seems that every movement is in slow motion until the aircraft is totally stopped, doors opened and passengers blitz through the boarding bridge to different gates or baggage claim area; adding the fact that now one of the biosecurity protocols is to disembark row by row testing everyone’s patience!
I am familiar with both feelings. Yes, I have been in my seat desperated to deplane and directly run to the gate or to find a horribly long line for another carry-on bag security screening. At times making it as the last passenger to board and other times to only discover I was left behind.
One incident I remember from my first time missing my connecting flight was that I said “I lost my flight” which is the literal translation from Spanish. Sadly and truly the one lost thing is time with no refund or replacement and depending on the case, the budget is somewhat or greatly altered, but money comes and goes.
I have learned to book my flights with ample time. I prefer to wait, walk the airport from one end to the other, read, listen music, use the free 30-minute WiFi, write in my journal and sporadically enjoy a cheap, not-so-healthy snack.
Any piece of music is compose with intervals and rests (silent notes) and these are also needed to compose a life. Layovers at airports are some components to the music score of our lives.